Two good friends Bonita and Benita; lost loved ones in 2 days and I am saddened along with my friends. Bonita lost her cousin Nick who just got married a month ago; in a car accident. And Benita lost her mother Ms Dorothy. Wasn't I just at her house eating spaghetti and looking at her shoe collection. I can't imagine loosing a spouse as a newlywed and we are never ever ready to give up our moms. I still miss my mother even after 15 years.